The Lively Fish - Yung Mei Ling
[Interview with Yvonne]
Her smile and light-heartedness have made her a favourite and a blessing.
"They say it's a blessing to be loved, but why don't I feel it at all?" Yung Mei Ling asked with a smile.
"Because you love Kent more than he loves you. He is the one who is loved."
"Is that so?" She smiled so hard her eyes squinted. "You ask him, you ask him," she said, lovingly.
Of course I didn't ask Kent: Do you love her more? Or did she love you more? It's better for people to keep their opinions to themselves in matters of affection. It's just that the line from Yung Mei Ling, "Why don't I think so?" It evoked some small moments of the feeling that "he is the one who is loved".
One afternoon, six months ago, when she and Miu Kiu Wai went out of town to appear on stage, Kent Tong and Chi Mei Chun saw them off.
It was on that day that Yung Mei Ling's suppressed emotions exploded. The charming young lady cried a lot.
In the airport restaurant, Qi Mei Zhen and Miao Qiao Wei occupy a small table.
Next to him, Kent yawns frequently, as if he doesn't even want to talk.
His indifference was hard on her, and when she saw how carefully Miao Qiaowei cared for Qi Meizhen, she felt even more left out.
The sadness and "undignified" feelings overwhelmed her and brought tears to her eyes.
The people around her were shocked to see her in tears, and Kent was also taken aback.
This little girl was so sad that she could not speak. Tears crawled down her face and then slowly dripped down the lace of her dress.
Kent was dumbfounded, he couldn't understand why she was crying.
He thought to himself, "It's just a short goodbye, right? Why was she so sad?
Miao Qiao Wei, who was a few tables away, thought the couple was having a tiff and said, "Why don't you just let her go?"
But Chi Mei Zhen could see the reason. But Chi Mei Zhen could see why. She gave a wink to Kent.
At first, he was oblivious. He muttered: "Girls, what's going on?"
Tears welled up in Yung Mei Ling's eyes, but her heart was deeply saddened by the lack of response from her boyfriend.
The rest of the people who were dropping off people watched her sit there in tears, while Kent sat mute and at a loss for words.
It was an awkward moment as some strangers kept staring at her.
On the other side, Miao Qiao Wei held Qi Mei Zhen's hand and asked in a soft voice, "What is she unhappy about?"
Qi Mei Zhen looked at him and smiled sweetly, her face glowing with a different kind of satisfaction and sweetness.
Kent saw what they were doing, and even the most confused person would have understood.
Yung Mei Ling's tears flowed and she had no intention of holding them back, so she simply burst into tears.
A poetic girl's love. Kent lowered his head and kissed her face, holding her shoulders, murmuring words of love.
In a short time, her tears turned into a smile as she fell into Kent's arms.
As she dried her tears, she looked up with that usual wise smile.
Looking back on the incident, she only felt childish.
However, we felt the importance of this boyfriend in her life.
"You ask him, you ask him." She repeats: "See which of us he thinks is more important to whom."
When she speaks, she is very expressive, with her big eyes blinking and her two funny bunny teeth, giving her a deft, animated look. Perhaps this is why she has made a name for herself in the visual world.
"Many people say I'm lucky, but in fact, I'm also 'miserable'.
Yung Mei Ling's 'miserable' is because she feels she has 'suffered a lot' and understands the 'coldness of human feelings'.
But is it better than some artists who have been suffering for 10 years and are still half-famous?
"I guess so." She still admits it.
The television industry has brought her fame and fortune, and a strong love.
If I get married and my husband says, "No more acting. Then I will quit the entertainment industry.
She doesn't know if her future husband will be a good one - the future is unpredictable, but for now, she is happy when she sees Kent.
Many people say, "You are a very career-minded person,"
She says. "I just want to be a good wife when I get married, and if my husband doesn't like me to work, I'll just be a housewife."
Before she becoming a housewife, she renewed her contract with Wireless for another five years. Five years is not a short period of time. Many artists are deterred by this figure. But she didn't hesitate to give TVB another five years of her youth.
"Because I had no choice, if I want to act on TV, I have to sign for five years," she says. "I didn't insist on a two-year deal, three years, because I didn't think there was a big difference between three and five years. Maybe I'm a girl. I think if I get married at any time, the company won't stop me, and it doesn't matter if I don't act after marriage, as long as I don't appear on other stations." says Yung Mei Ling with her head tilted sideways, looking so devoted to the word 'marriage'.
"Relationships are very torturous, I'm a very emotional person and it's a mystery when I'm going to get married," she says.
Life is one mystery after another, and it is up to you to unravel and accept it.
If she hadn't been in the entertainment industry, she might not have met Kent.
"But I would have met others." She smiles petulantly: "There's no escaping it. Like most girls."
When she speaks of her beloved, there is an inexhaustible tenderness and joy in the corners of her eyes.
It was a scene that made my heart soften.
I didn't ask: How enchanted was Tom when he was with you? How did you feel when he gently held your hand? If I had, she would have said again, "You ask him, you ask him."
The eagerness in her eyes was that of a child waiting for an answer.
"Sometimes I feel like I'm really a child and I never grow up" she says she is too emotional.
"Even if I'm singing, if the song and the lyrics are sad, I'll cry. I'm glad I'm not a professional singer, otherwise I would have 'cried my eyes out" she smiles.
"I can't say when I'll suddenly feel sad. Maybe in the blink of an eye, I'll come out of it."
She blinks her big, watery eyes and puts on a narrow smile. "Don't be fooled by me then."
Yung Mei Ling's pretty face is like a picture in flux, even her expressions are fluid. In just thirty minutes, there are different flavours. There is anger, there is grievance, there is activity, there is true emotion. No matter how deep or shallow the friendship is, it is always fascinating to watch.
Yung Mei Ling is lovely. She is as lively as a fish.
How fortunate are you with Kent?
"You can ask him." She laughed and suggested so.
source: http://www.barbarayung.net/
活潑魚兒-翁美玲
【訪談亞翁內文】
巧笑、輕嗔，使她備受驕寵，眷顧於幸運；在她，不是沒有付出的，於電視圈的那些日子裡，努力之外，還有一串的笑和淚。
「人說被愛是幸福的，為什麼我一點也不覺得？」
翁美玲笑著問。
「因為妳愛他多於他愛妳。他才是被愛。」
「是嗎？」她竟笑得眼睛瞇成一條線，
愛嬌的道：「妳去問他，妳去問他。」
我當然沒有去問湯鎮業：你愛她多一點？還是她愛你多一點？感情的事，旁人還是別加意見為妙。只是，翁美玲的一句：「怎麼我不覺得？」勾起了一些小片段，那份「他才是被愛」的感覺，油然而生。
半年前的一個下午，翁美玲與苗僑偉到外地登台，湯鎮業和戚美珍送機。
就在那一天，翁美玲抑壓著的情緒爆發了。這個愛嬌的小姑娘，狠狠地哭了一場。
在機場餐廳內，戚美珍與苗僑偉佔了一張小桌，輕訴離情，喁喁細語，而翁美玲呢？
他身旁的小湯呵欠頻頻，彷彿連話也不想說。
他的冷淡使翁美玲很難受，加上看到苗僑偉對戚美珍的小心呵護，她自己更覺被冷落。
一時間傷心和「沒體面」的意緒襲上心頭使她的眼淚掉了下來。
看見她落淚，周遭的人嚇一跳，湯鎮業也吃了一驚。
而這個小妮子，傷心得說不出話來。一任眼淚爬了一臉，然後慢慢滴落裙領的花邊。
湯鎮業看得呆了，他完全不明白她為何哭泣。
他心裡想：只不過是一個短暫的別離吧？何以那麼傷感。
隔了幾張桌子的苗僑偉，以為是小情侶鬧彆扭，道：「讓讓她不就好了嗎？」
但戚美珍卻看出因由來了。女孩子的心事都是差不多。她向湯鎮業使個眼色。
湯鎮業初時渾然不覺。他咕噥：女孩子，到底是怎麼一回事？
翁美玲的眼淚湧出來，但個郎毫無反應，她心裡便倍添難受。
其餘送機的人看她坐著下淚，小湯木然在一旁，大家都不知怎樣勸解。
也有陌生的人不停地注視，一段頗尷尬的時刻。
那邊廂苗僑偉握著戚美珍的手，輕聲問：她有什麼不開心呢？
戚美珍望著他甜甜的一笑，她的臉上有著另一種滿足和甜蜜的光彩。
湯鎮業看到了他們的情景，再糊塗的人，也該會意了。
翁美玲的眼淚流出了，也無意再忍，她索性「哇」的一聲哭起來。
一份如詩的少女情趣。小湯低下頭輕吻她的臉，扶傍她的香肩，喃喃訴說著情話，
而翁美玲倒在小湯的懷裡，不多久，眼淚竟化作了笑容。
擦乾眼淚的翁美玲，一抬頭，又是那個慣見的，慧黠的笑容。
這次的事，回想起來，她只覺自己孩子氣。
然而，我們卻感到，這個男朋友在她生命中的重要性。
「妳去問他，妳去問他。」她重複：「看他覺得我們誰對誰重要些。」
翁美玲說話的時候，表情很豐富，一雙大眼眨呀眨，配著兩隻有趣的兔仔牙，予人一種靈巧，活躍的感覺。也許，這正是她在視圈冒出頭來的原因。
「很多人說我幸運，其實，我也頂『淒涼』的。」
翁美玲的『淒涼』，是因為她自覺「吃了不少苦頭」，深深體會「人情冷暖」。
但比起一些苦熬十年，依舊半紅不黑的藝人好得多？
「是吧。」她還是承認了。
電視圈帶給她名和利，和一份濃濃的愛情，無論將來怎樣，蜜樣的愛情生活，使她暫忘了工作上無可避免的困難和辛苦。
「如果結了婚，丈夫說：不要做戲啦。那麼我會退出娛樂圈。」她不知道將來的丈夫是否湯鎮業，畢竟將來的事是難預料的，但現在，看到他的時候，她就會感到很高興。
「很多人說：翁美玲，妳是一個事業心很強的人呢。其實不，我只是做了，就要做得好，將來結了婚，也就要做一個好太太，丈夫不喜歡我做事，我就只做主婦好了。」
在未做主婦之前，她又與無線續了五年約。五年，頗不是一個短日子。很多藝員就是為了這個數字而卻步。而她，卻又毫不猶豫，再把五年青春交給無線電視台。
「因為我沒有選擇。」她說：「除非我不演電視，否則就只有簽五年。我並不堅持只簽兩年，三年，是覺得三年和五年沒有大分別。也許我是女孩子吧，我想，如果我隨時結婚，公司不會阻止我，只要不亮相他台，我婚後不演戲也沒有關係。」翁美玲說得頭也輕側起來，一副好投入的樣子--對「結婚」兩字的投入。
「感情是很折騰人的。」
她說：「我又是一個很情緒化的人，什麼時候結婚，也是一個謎。」
人生本來就是一個接一個的謎，且看你如何去揭開，接受。
如果翁美玲不在娛樂圈發展，可能認識不到湯鎮業。
「但我又會認識其他。」她嬌態的一笑：「還是逃不了。」和大多數的女孩子一樣，
翁美玲喜歡被濃濃的愛包圍，提到心上人，眉梢眼角有道不盡的溫柔與喜悅。
這般情景，一顆心也被感染得輕軟起來。
我沒有問：湯鎮業和妳在一起的時候，他是如何陶醉？他輕握妳的小手時，妳又是怎樣心情？如果問了，她必然再次道：「妳去問他，妳去問他。」
眼裡的熱切如等待答案的小孩。
「有時，我也覺得自己真的是個孩子，永遠長不大。」
她說自己感性太重了。
「最易觸景傷情，就算唱歌，如果那首歌和歌詞悲慘
，我會唱著唱著哭起來，還好我不是職業歌星，否
則一定『哭死』。」此刻的她，卻是笑意盈盈的。
「我卻不敢說，自己什麼時候會突然傷感，
說不定一眨眼，我悲從中來。」
她眨著水靈靈的大眼睛，掛一個捉狹的笑容：
「那時候別被我唬著了。」
翁美玲的俏臉，像一幅變幻不定的畫圖，連神采也是流動的。短短的三十分鐘，有著不同的韻味。含嗔，輕怨，活躍，真情。莫論交情深淺，總教人看得痴了。
翁美玲是可愛的．她情韻流轉，如一尾活潑的魚。
小湯，你是幾生修來的福氣呢？
「妳去問他嘛。」她「嗤」的一笑，這樣提議了。
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