Hi Rob, I really admire the time and effort that you devoted to this website, and I am so moved by the stories you shared. I could probably understand how Barbara felt, or why her personality had two sides: so lovely independent while also fragile, as I also grow up with single parent and moved to a different country. It is very sad that she passed away at such a young age, but she was so lucky to have someone like you who was so gentle and caring to her in her life. Wish you and your family all the best:)