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Tragic Weng Meiling: Suicide at the age of 26, you thought you were trapped by love, but in fact there was another secret behind it
In the 1980s, there was a female star Weng Meiling who was very popular and became the beauty in everyone's hearts. As for the role of "Huang Rong" in "The Legend of the Condor Heroes", the most classic one is the version played by her. The role of "Huang Rong" has been played by Zhou Xun, Lin Yichen, and Zhu Yin. Perhaps, many young people have not seen "Huang Rong" played by Weng Meiling. But put her picture, you will think why she is the most classic version.
But this popular female star chose to commit suicide to end her life at the peak of her career. When she left, she was only 26 years old. It was the beautiful time of an actress, but she left resolutely. After her death, her boyfriend Tang Zhenye also became the target of public criticism. Many movie fans think that Weng Meiling's death has something to do with her boyfriend, and that she committed suicide for love. However, behind Weng Meiling's suicide, there is actually another "secret" hidden behind it.
Weng Meiling was born in Hong Kong in 1959. In 1980, Weng Meiling participated in the "Miss Chinese British" campaign and won the runner-up with her beautiful appearance. Weng Meiling was really a beauty when she was young, and was loved by many people. After that, she participated in the Miss Hong Kong beauty pageant. Although in this competition, she only won the eighth place. But she was spotted by TVB, and then signed a five-year actor contract. Weng Meiling was arranged by the company to shoot the corner of Shuanggege in "Thirteen Sisters".
In the same year, "The Legend of the Condor Heroes" was cast in Hong Kong, and the notice of "Ideal Huang Rong" was publicly called for. After seeing it, Weng Meiling signed up for the audition with the attitude of giving it a try. At that time, there were more than 3,000 actors who signed up for the election, and they all wanted to get the role of "Huang Rong". Weng Meiling saw that there were too many people, and she had no advantage because she had no experience. So she had an idea, and when it was her turn, she twirled a willow stick, walked up to Jin Yong playfully and said, "Huang Rong, the daughter of the master of Peach Blossom Island, has met Senior Jin." It was that kind of playfulness. , Let Jin Yong decide that she is the Huang Rong he was looking for.
Weng Meiling did not disappoint Jin Yong, and her role as Huang Rong was loved by the public. She also rose to become a popular female star because of the role of Huang Rong, and she has been constantly filming since then. After that, she also filmed works such as "The Battle of Xuanwu Gate", "Chu Liuxiang", "Partners Splitting Partners" and so on. When she was filming "Thirteen Sisters", she also met Tang Zhenye. At that time, she was just a newcomer to the entertainment industry, while Tang Zhenye had been working in the entertainment industry for a long time and had a high reputation. Tang Zhenye, Huang Rihua, Andy Lau, Miu Qiaowei, and Tony Leung are also known as the TVB Five Tigers. When the two were working together, they fell in love because of the drama, and they were together soon after.
After Weng Meiling filmed "The Legend of the Condor Heroes", her fame can be shoulder to shoulder with Tang Zhenye. At that time, the relationship between the two was also envied by everyone, thinking that they were a natural couple. However, the two get together less often because they are both busy with their own careers.
Coupled with the handsome and handsome Tang Zhenye, there are always beautiful female stars around him, and there are often scandals. The sensitive and insecure Weng Meiling often cries because of this, and even commits suicide by swallowing sleeping pills, but without success. In 1985, Tang Zhenye had more revealing shots because of the film he collaborated with Zhong Chuhong. Weng Meiling was jealous when she found out, and she also took a set of sexy photos for the magazine just to get angry. Once Tang Zhenye was invited by Miu Qiaowei to go swimming in Repulse Bay, and there were Qi Meizhen and Wu Junru. This behavior angered Weng Meiling even more, and she finally couldn't stand it and shouted to Tang Zhenye: "Let's break up!" Afterwards, on May 14, 1985, Weng Meiling committed suicide at home and never woke up again. In her suicide note, there is another sentence: "Darling, lloveyou (dear, I love you)."
Because of this sentence, all Weng Meiling's fans think she committed suicide for love. Tang Zhenye has also become the target of everyone's denunciation, and has become the accusation of thousands of people. But Tang Zhenye has always been unable to figure out why Weng Meiling committed suicide in the end. In his opinion, this was just a small quarrel, not so serious. Tang Zhenye said: "How can such a thing happen, the quarrel is not very serious, I have no other woman, and she has no other man." But Weng Meiling left him in a decisive way.
On the day Weng Meiling was buried, Tang Zhenye was too sad to walk by himself. With the support of his friends, he put half of the comb in his arms into Weng Meiling's coffin. This behavior has a different meaning in Hong Kong: we will marry each other in this life, and we will walk together in the next life. On this day, Tang Zhenye was also shouted by fans: "It was you who killed Meiling!" This is really a very sad story. Once a beautiful couple, one passed away forever, and one career also came to an abrupt end. Perhaps Tang Zhenye will never forget Weng Meiling's departure throughout his life, because she has become an eternity!
It wasn't until 2013 that things began to reverse. A Dutch boyfriend of Weng Meiling's teenage years built a website and said, "I'm not surprised that Meiling committed suicide." In his revealing of the secret, it may also solve the doubts that have puzzled Tang Zhenye for many years. This Weng Meiling's ex-boyfriend in the Netherlands is called Rob Lederbow. The two had been together for 5 years, and their relationship was very deep, and they also witnessed many unknown sides of Weng Meiling. Rob Redbow broke out that Weng Meiling committed suicide many times. The two met when they were on campus in the UK, and they became together naturally after getting along soon.
The relationship between the two was opposed by her mother after she knew about it. But Weng Meiling, who was deeply in love, did not listen to her mother's persuasion and confronted her mother. Even on the fifth day, she silently swallowed a large amount of sleeping pills and chose to commit suicide. Fortunately, the mother found out in time, and Weng Meiling was successfully rescued. Seeing her determination, her mother no longer prevented the two from interacting. But later, because the two went to different universities, Weng Meiling felt uneasy and insecure about her relationship again.
Weng Meiling once again chose to swallow sleeping pills in the dormitory, but she woke up at the last moment and asked the people in the surrounding dormitories for help, saving her life. In fact, the reason why Weng Meiling caused this has a lot to do with the environment in which she grew up. Her mother was just her father's mistress and had no status. After her father died, she and her mother were driven out of the house and began to live a life of displacement.
Weng Meiling felt extremely insecure when she was a child. Later, when she boarded at her uncle's house, she would compete with his uncle's girlfriend. She once said that after her uncle got a girlfriend, she would be angry: "I was very upset in my heart, worried that my uncle would be punished. Someone snatched it away.” It was because of the lack of correct guidance since she was a child that Weng Meiling was extremely distrustful. Coupled with many suicide experiences, Weng Meiling despised life, which finally led to such a result.
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source: https://www.sohu.com/a/614771805_121125656?spm=smpc.tag-page.fd-news.4.1670418000012DA5oXoZ悲惨的翁美玲：26岁自杀，你以为为情所困，其实背后另藏秘密
在80年代的时候，有一位女明星翁美玲曾红极一时，成为众人心中的美人。要说《射雕英雄传》中的“黄蓉”一角，最为经典的还是她饰演的那一版本。“黄蓉”这一角色曾有周迅、林依晨、朱茵饰演过。或许，现在很多年轻人没有看过翁美玲饰演的“黄蓉”。但是放上她的照片，你就会觉得为什么她是最为经典的一版。
但是这位众人喜爱的女明星，却在事业巅峰时期，选择了自杀来结束自己的生命。她离去的时候，才仅仅只有26岁。正是以为女演员的美好年华，但她却决绝的离开了。在她死后，她的男友汤镇业也成为众矢之的。很多影迷都把翁美玲的死认为和她男友有关，认为她是为情自杀。但是，其实在翁美玲自杀的背后，其实背后另藏“秘密”。
翁美玲是1959年出生于香港。在1980年，翁美玲参加了“英国华裔小姐”的竞选，凭借着漂亮的容貌荣获亚军。翁美玲年轻的时候也真的是个美人胚子，受到不少人的喜爱。之后，她又参加港姐的选美比赛。虽然在这次比赛中，她只获得第八名的名次。但是她被无线台看中，之后签订了为期5年的演员合约。翁美玲被公司安排拍摄《十三妹》中的双格格一角。
同年，《射雕英雄传》在香港选角，公开征集“理想黄蓉”的通知。翁美玲在看到了之后，也抱着试试看的态度报名参加了试镜。当时报名参与竞选的演员大约有3000多人，都想要获得“黄蓉”这一角色。翁美玲看人数太多，自己有因没什么经验并不占优势。所以她灵机一动，在轮到她的时候，她拈着一根柳条，俏皮的走到金庸面前作揖道：“晚辈桃花岛主之女黄蓉，见过金前辈。”正是那那种俏皮劲，让金庸拍板认定她就是要找的黄蓉。
翁美玲也的确没有让金庸失望，她饰演的黄蓉受到了大众的喜爱。她也因黄蓉一角跃升为当红女明星，从此片约不断。之后的她还拍摄了《决战玄武门》、《楚留香》、《拆档拍档》等等作品。在她拍摄《十三妹》的时候，她也遇到了汤镇业。那时的她只是一个刚入演艺圈的新人，而汤镇业已经在娱乐圈打拼已久，有着很高的名气。汤镇业和黄日华、刘德华、苗侨伟、梁朝伟并称无线五虎将。两人在合作的时候因戏生情，不久后就在一起了。
在翁美玲拍摄了《射雕英雄传》之后，她的名气可以和汤镇业并肩了。当时两人的这段恋情也被众人羡慕着，认为是天生一对。但是，两人因为彼此都忙于自己的事业而聚少离多。
加上英俊帅气的汤镇业，身边总是不乏漂亮的女明星，还经常传出绯闻，敏感又没有安全感的翁美玲经常因此哭泣，甚至还吞安眠药自杀，但没有成功。在1985年，汤镇业因为和钟楚红合作的电影，有比较暴露的镜头。知道后的翁美玲吃醋了，为了赌气她也为杂志拍下了一组性感照片。在一次汤镇业受苗侨伟邀请去浅水湾游泳，还有戚美珍、吴君如两人。这一行为更是惹怒了翁美玲，她终于受不了对汤镇业大喊道：“我们分手吧！”之后，在1985年5月14日，翁美玲就在家中自杀身亡，没有再醒过来。在她的遗书中，还有一句话：“Darling，lloveyou（亲爱的，我爱你）。”
因为这一句话，所有翁美玲的粉丝都认为她是为情自杀。汤镇业也成为众人口伐的对象，成为千夫所指。但汤镇业则一直想不通，为什么翁美玲最后会走上自杀的道路。在他看来这只是一次小小的吵闹，并没有严重到如此地步。汤镇业表示：“怎么会有发生这种事情，吵架也不是很严重，我没有别的女人，她也没有别的男人。”但是翁美玲就是以一种决绝的方式离开了他。
在翁美玲入殓的那天，汤镇业也是悲伤到不能自己行走。在友人的搀扶下，将怀中的半把梳子放入翁美玲的棺中。这一行为在香港有着别样的寓意：今生结发，来生同行。这一天，汤镇业也被粉丝喊话道：“都是你害死了美玲！”“还我们黄蓉！”在翁美玲死后，汤镇业也从此退出娱乐圈，不再理会娱乐圈的纷争。这真是一个很悲伤的故事，曾经的一对佳人，一个永远的离去了，一个事业也戛然而止。或许汤镇业的一生都将难以忘怀翁美玲的离去，因为她已成一个永恒！
直到2013年，这事情才开始有所反转。有一位翁美玲少女时期的荷兰男朋友建了一个网站，说道：“美玲自杀，我并不惊讶。”在他的揭秘中，或许也解开了迷惑汤镇业多年的疑惑。这位翁美玲荷兰前男友叫做罗泊·莱得鲍。两人曾在一起交往5年之久，感情十分的深刻，也见证了很多翁美玲不为人知的一面。罗泊·莱得鲍爆出，翁美玲曾多次自杀。两人是在英国的校园时认识的，相处不久后加自然而然的在一起了。
两人的这段感情，被她母亲知道后遭到了反对。但深陷爱情中的翁美玲并不听母亲的劝导，和母亲对抗着。甚至在第五天的时候，她默默的吞下一大把安眠药选择自杀。幸好母亲发现的及时，翁美玲也被成功救下来。母亲看到她如此决绝的决心，也不再阻止两人的交往。但后来，两人因上了不同的大学，翁美玲再次感到不安和对感情缺乏安全感。
翁美玲再次选择了在宿舍吞下安眠药，但在最后一刻醒悟，向周围宿舍的人求救而留的性命。其实，翁美玲之所以会造成这样的原因，和她从小生长的环境有着很大的关系。她母亲只是父亲的情妇，并没有名分。在父亲逝世后，她和母亲就被赶出了家门，开始过着颠沛流离的生活。
从小的翁美玲极度的没有安全感，在后来寄宿舅舅家，她还会和舅舅的女友争宠，她曾说过在舅舅交到女友后，她都会生气：“我心中便很不高兴，担心舅父被人抢走。”正是从小缺失正确引导，翁美玲的心理是极度没有信任感的。加上多次的自杀经历，让翁美玲对生命轻视，才最终造成这样的结果
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