2021 May 7: Weng Meiling, before becoming Huang Rong (翁美玲，在成为黄蓉之前)

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Article written by columnist, entertainment blogger of personal column "star tide Peng Bai" and "last night's Star News"  xuuxoo甘鹏  

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Source: https://m.weibo.cn/status/4634348256759353

Weng Meiling was born in Taurus on May 7, 1959.

She has only been a star for three years. In March 1982, she signed up for the Hong Kong beauty pageant and won the eighth place. Then she began her career as a TVB artiste. She was red and purple, shining like a meteor in the night sky.

"Biography of the arched hero" has made her the most popular TV star, Huang Rong. Anyone who has seen her version will not feel that the later performers can surpass her.

Fame and fortune came quickly. She bought a house of her own in Hong Kong, but on May 14, 1985, just three years after she became famous, she turned on gas at home and committed suicide because of her emotional troubles.

Tang Zhenye, the hero of the tragic story, was the first one in the "wireless five tigers", but his career has been in a slump since then, so far.

Tang Zhenye, who has become fat, now comes out occasionally, which still makes people sigh: if Weng Meiling didn't commit suicide in those years, what would it be like?

The story of Weng Meiling has no afterstory. The dramatic thing is, unexpectedly, there is a prequel.

Robert Radboud, a Dutch man who was Weng Meiling's boyfriend while studying at Cambridge University in the UK, has surfaced.

They met in the cafeteria of Cambridge art college when they were 17 years old. They fell in love between 1976 and 1981. Because of Weng's mother's opposition and young people's misunderstanding, the love process was not smooth sailing. However, they secretly dated, traveled together, and gathered with friends. They had a lot of good times. At last, after Weng Meiling returned to Hong Kong for development, she ended up.

Many years later, Robert was over middle age and had his own family and children. He took a group photo with Weng Meiling when he was young. He wrote down their stories and uploaded them to the Internet. He shared them with the fans who had been in love with Weng Meiling for many years. We can see what kind of girl Weng Meiling was before she became Huang Rong.

On the one hand, in her girlhood, Weng Meiling was young and lively with a refined temperament; On the one hand, in her girlhood, Weng Meiling was also stubborn and rebellious.

In his memory, Weng Meiling, who was a girl, had self mutilation several times because her mother was against love, but she was saved.

"I don't think she really wants to die. Suicide is her way of getting attention," Robert said of Weng's early death "I just want to miss her with all the people who care about her," he said

Many years later, people who have been loved still think about it; Many years later, she is still remembered and loved by the audience, which shows the charm of Weng Meiling.

And her short and bright life is also an exclamation point, which reminds people to pay attention to their mental health and cherish this life only once.

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《星潮澎湃》、《星光新闻昨夜》专栏作家、娱乐博主徐旭撰文甘鹏

翁美玲，1959年5月7日出生的金牛座。

她只做了三年的明星，1982年3月，报名参加港姐选美，获得第八名，然后开始TVB艺员的生涯，红得发紫，曾像一颗流星，照亮过夜空。

《射雕英雄传》让她一跃成为最当红的电视明星，黄蓉一角，但凡看过她的版本，都不会觉得后来的演绎者能够超越她。

名利迅速扑来，她在香港买了一间属于自己的房子，但就在成名仅三年之后的1985年5月14日，她在家中开煤气自杀，因为感情细故。

悲剧故事的男主角汤镇业，本来是“无线五虎”里红得最早的，但之后事业一蹶不振，承受这因果至今。

已经发福的汤镇业如今偶尔出来，还是引人感叹：如果当年翁美玲没有自杀，会是什么样呢？

翁美玲的故事，没有后传。戏剧性的是，不期然，却有了“前传”。

一个翁美玲在英国于剑桥读大学期间的男友，荷兰男子Robert Radboud浮出了水面。

他们17岁时相遇于剑桥艺术学院食堂，在1976年至1981年期间相恋，其间因翁母反对、年轻人的误会，恋爱过程也并非一帆风顺，但偷偷约会、一起旅游、和朋友聚会……度过了许多美好时光，最终在翁美玲回港发展后，画上句号。

多年之后，Robert人过中年，有了自己的家和孩子，他翻出了少年时代和翁美玲的张张合影，将他们的故事，一段段写下来，上传到网络，和多年来对翁美玲恋恋不忘的影迷分享，让大家看到，翁美玲成为黄蓉之前，是怎样的一个女孩。
一方面，少女时代的翁美玲，青春活泼、气质脱俗；一方面，少女时代的翁美玲，也是倔强叛逆，为爱痴狂。

在他的回忆里，少女时代的翁美玲因为母亲反对恋爱也有过几次自残的行为，只是被救过来了。
对于翁美玲的早逝，Robert说：“我并不认为她真的想死，自杀是她得到注意力的方式。”对于为什么要把他们的故事公开，他说：“我只是想跟所有关心她的人一起怀念她。”

多年后，仍被爱过的人惦记着；多年后，仍被观众记挂和喜欢着，足见翁美玲的魅力。
而她短暂又璀璨的一生也是一个惊叹号，提醒着人们，注意心理的健康，珍惜仅此一次的生命。

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