If there's no romance during courtship, where will the spark come from after marriage?
Barbara Yung started dating at a young age.
She said: Even a cheesy "I love you" feels comforting to the heart...
Lai Er
Barbara Yung is the adorable Huang Rong from the TV series The Legend of the Condor Heroes. Chatting with Barbara is always fun, and talking about love with her is even more interesting.
Perhaps girls are always shy. When Barbara heard this question, she laughed and said, "There's no need to bring up the past, and as for the future, I have no way of knowing." Her tone was one of non-disclosure, so there was no choice but to change the topic and ask about her expectations for a boyfriend. After a brief pause, she said, "The most important thing is to have similar interests and to connect well in conversation. But I get along well with people, so it shouldn't be hard to get along with me."
Barbara mentioned that she started dating at a very young age (probably something all pretty girls experience). However, after moving to the UK, her family didn't like the idea of her dating foreigners, and she herself wanted to focus on her studies. So, during her eight years in the UK, there wasn't much to add to her romantic history.
Now that she's back in Hong Kong, what are her thoughts? "I can't predict matters of the heart, but I think it's important to focus on my career while I'm young. If, in the future, my husband doesn't want me to work after marriage, I can give up my career for him."
Some people think giving flowers is "old-fashioned," but Barbara sees it as "romantic." She said, "If couples don't indulge in romance during courtship, once they're married and everything becomes practical, there will be even less room for romance."
So she believes that a bouquet of flowers or a card represents a gesture of affection. Even something as cheesy as "I love you," she said, "When said sincerely by your partner at the right moment, it can be very comforting."
In fact, every girl probably loves hearing such words from their boyfriend, but few are willing to admit it as openly as Barbara Yung.
Thus, her beauty and warmth are complemented by her candidness.
In The Legend of the Condor Heroes, Barbara Yung played the cute Huang Rong, opposite Felix Wong who played Guo Jing.
在《射雕英雄传》里,翁美玲饰演小可爱黄蓉,与黄日华饰演的郭靖演对手戏。
source: Lianhe Wanbao, 19 March 1983
恋爱时不罗曼蒂克一番,婚后哪有情趣?
翁美玲小小年纪就拍拖
她说:就是一句肉麻的“我爱你”,心里也很受用………………。
徕儿
翁美玲就是连续剧《射雕英雄传》里的小可爱黄蓉。跟翁美玲谈天是件有趣的事,跟她谈爱消问题,就更有趣了。
可能女孩子总是害羞的,翁美玲一听到这问题 ,便笑道:“过去的无谓提了,至于将来,我又无从知晓。”一派无可奉告的语气,没法子,唯有改转口吻,问她对男朋友的要求如何。
所以
她略一沉吟,然后说:“最重要是趣味相投, 交谈起来也投契,不过我自己人缘不错,应该不难相处。”
翁美玲说自己年纪很小已拍拖了(大概漂亮的女孩子都会如此),但跑到英国以后,家人不喜欢招外国人作女婿,她本人又想专心读书,所以在英国8年,倒没有什么可加在她的恋爱史上。
现在回到香港了,她又怎样想?
“感情的事,我不能预先知道,但年轻时我觉得该以事业为重,到将来结婚了,若丈夫不想我工作,我可以为他放弃事业。”
有些人觉得送花十分“老土”,翁美玲却以为
是“情趣”。她说:“男女之间,拍拖时也不罗曼蒂克一番,到结婚以后,样样都现实时,更加没情趣可言了。”
所以她认为一束花,一张卡,都代表了一份心意,甚至许多人认为肉麻的一句「我爱你」,她说 :“在你最需要时,对方真诚的说出这句话,小受用得很。”
兄弟
其实可能每个女孩子都爱听男朋友说这样的话 ,只是很少人愿意像翁美玲一般,坦诚的告诉别人
因此美丽亲切的她,又添了几分爽朗。
(PY)
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