It's hard to cut the ties of love when you believe in fate

[Interview with Yawng]


The problem is not who is right or who is wrong, but rather their personalities and circumstances...

There are rumours that Weng Meiling and Kent Tong have broken up their relationship, and there are even rumours that they are fighting at home. I went to see Weng Meiling to clarify this rumour. Yesterday, I spoke to her on the phone and, naturally, the matter came up again.

She said, "I have never fought with anyone in my life."

"So, is there something wrong with your relationship?"

"Yes. There was a time when I was very upset. And I was very sad. I was just dead." "Why?"

"What was it? Did Tom do something wrong?"

"No. You can't say he's done something wrong." Weng Meiling was calmly analysing... "It's just that we don't see eye to eye and there's no compromise. I'm not happy with him, and he may not be happy with me either. It's not a question of who's right and who's wrong, it's a question of personalities and circumstances. At that time, I did want to break up with him."

"How did it settle down?"

"He tried to change, and I knew he was trying to change," she said. "So I got soft again,"

"Now, what?"

"Well, no matter what, when you change again, there's something missing. " She said, "Let it be, I don't know what will happen in the future. I believe in destiny. Now, he and I are destined to meet."

The fortune-teller said she should get married when she was thirty, but she was only twenty-five now.

She laughed: "I don't have the heart, I have to wait five years before I can get married."

For a while, when she was upset, she thought, "Why don't we just get married?"  But if you don't marry well, it's a sin. So now I just don't want to."

"Do you have any premonition about your relationship with Kent?"

"No, who knows what will happen in the future."

"What exactly are the problems between you?"

"It's hard to say, there are so many problems."

"How long have you been in a cold war?"

"Not very long. In fact, I am a very easy person to coax. As long as he's sincere, he'll be fine soon."

" Hey, no third party?"I smiled and asked, "Does Kent have a second girlfriend?"

"Why didn't you ask if I had a boyfriend? But I don't know what will happen in the future."

She thought about it and added, "Kent complained in front of people that I didn't have time for him. Maybe being too busy is one of the reasons for our friction. I work every day. It's a circumstance, I can't help it."

I said to Weng Meiling, "Kent Tong seems to be very afraid of you, I find you are quite fierce with him. Remember the last time he said the wrong thing and your face sank and he stuck his tongue out?"

"You believe that? He went out there and pretended on purpose. Don't forget, we're all actors. He's not afraid of me."

He's working every day now, with Chor Lau Siang filming until December and a long fashion drama in December.

"He is busy all the time. I won't have a chance to go out and dig for gold until the New Year." Suddenly, she sighs, "Oh! It's so faded! It's so light!"

"Hey, you're in such a depressed mood!"

"No fun."

It is the first time I have seen her so down since I met her. Maybe it is not so easy to shake off bitter feelings.
If there is a chance to meet, but there is no chance to unite, what can we do?

 

source: http://www.barbarayung.net/ Sister Magazine

信是有緣 難斬情絲

【訪談亞翁內文】
 翁美玲對這段情既心淡又看化 問題不是誰對誰錯,而是個性與環境困擾了他們…
外間傳說阿翁和阿湯感情破裂,甚至還有人說他們在家裡動武。關於這個傳說,我也看過阿翁澄清過。昨天,和她通電話,很自然地,又扯到這件事。

她說:「我這一輩子,從來沒跟人家打過架。
    最多掟煲 ,何必打架。」
「那,你們的感情是有『不對』?」
「有。有一段日子,我很心淡,
 而且也很化。簡直是心死了。」
「為什麼事?阿湯做錯了事?」
「沒有。不可以說他做錯了事。」阿翁很冷靜在分析...
「只是兩個人的個性看去不一樣,沒辦法妥協。我對他不滿意,同樣的,他對我也可能不
 滿意。不是誰對誰錯的問題,是個性和環境的問題。那段日子,我的確想和他分手。」
「後來怎樣緩和下來?」
「他嘗試改變,我也知道他的確在努力改變。」
她說:「於是我又心軟了。」
「現在,怎麼樣?」
「普通,不管怎麼樣,當你再改變,
 也少了一點點東西。」
她說:「順其自然啦,我也不知道以後會怎麼樣﹖﹗我好相信緣份。現在,我和他是有緣,如果沒有緣,我們怎麼會認識,但,不知道有沒有份﹖﹗」

算命的說她適宜在三十歲才結婚,而她現在只有二十五歲。
她笑:「沒有心機,要等五年才可以結婚。」
「有一陣子很想,當心煩的時候,就想,乾脆結婚算了。
 但嫁得不好,也是拿罪來受。所以,現在乾脆不想。」
「阿翁,對於你和阿湯的感情,你有沒有甚麼預感?」
「沒有,誰知道以後的事,別說五年,就算五個月,我都
 不能保証。我沒有信心,不知道會發生甚麼事﹖﹗」
「到底你們之間存在了甚麼問題?」
「很難說的,有很多問題。」
「你們冷戰了多久?」
「沒有很久。其實,我是個很容易哄的人,
 只要他誠意改,很快便沒事。」
「喂,不關第三者?」
我笑問:「阿湯是不是有第二個女朋友?」
「為什麼不說我有男朋友?唉,都不是這些,不過,以後就不知道了,怎麼知道會發生
 什麼事。會出現甚麼人。像劉永和戴良純,好的時候,也沒想到今天會發生這種事。」

她想想,又說:「阿湯在人家面前,怨我沒時間陪他,也許,太忙,
        也是我們磨擦的原因之一。我每天都開工。這是環境造成,沒辦法。」
我對阿翁說:「阿湯好像很怕你,我發覺你對他挺兇的,記得嗎,上一次,
       他說錯了一句話,你的臉馬上沉下來,而他立刻伸伸舌頭。」
「妳信?他出到外面,故意裝的,別忘了,我們都是演戲的。他哪會怕我。」

阿翁現在每天都在開工,「楚留香」要拍到十二月,而在十二月又有一部時裝長劇開拍。
「一直忙下去了。到今年過年之前,都沒有機會出去挖金了。」
突然,她又歎氣:「唉!好化!好淡!」
「喂,心情如此低落﹖﹗」
「毫無樂趣。」
認識阿翁,第一次見她如此低落。也許,苦澀的感情,抖還不是那麼容易抖得掉﹖﹗
若有緣相識,無份結合,又奈何﹖﹗

本文資料來源:姊妹雜誌

 

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