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Barbara Yung's life in England

From:       Di
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Subject:   Di's Memories of Barbara
Date:       Sat, 12 Feb 2011 21:04:56 +0000


Hello Rob


Those really were special days for us all. I remember Barbara being a very sweet, quiet person who Rob treated with so much gentleness and respect. She was probably overwhelmed with all the noise and laughter going on in our house (Steve's and mine in Westfield Road, Gt Shelford).


We used to invite friends back to the house on Sunday and cook an English roast dinner (roasted chicken, roasted potatoes, Yorkshire puddings, and lots of vegetables and gravy/sauce). It didn't seem to matter how many people were there â€" we still managed to feed everyone. We would then spend all afternoon playing board games or cards, and in the evening we would fill pitta breads with the rest of the chicken and some cheese to feed us all again.

 

nick barbara nod at westfield rd

 

 .1979 barbara nod westfield road pic 1

Barbara together with you and with my brother Nick just after sunday dinner

 

Sundays Barbara didn't have to work at the chip shop so this was a day that she and Rob could come to Shelford to spend time together. Before Yolande and Chris came to live with us, Rob and Barbara had their own room which meant they could spend precious time on their own.


I remember before we moved to Shelford, Steve and I used to live in Guest Road (near to the college where we all went) and Steve and I would collect Rob (who didn't have a car) on a Friday evening (Barbara would have been working) and we would go to a supermarket called the Beehive Centre and shop for our weekly groceries. We would then go back to Rob's flat in Bridgeacre House and play cards or Steve and Rob would play Chess. Steve and I would take advantage of Rob's bathroom as ours in Guest Road was really horrible and cold!


I can't remember how Steve and I found out that Barbara had tried to commit suicide but we went to see her in the hospital and the only thing I remember was how small she looked against the big white sheets of the hospital bed. Rob and Barbara tried so hard to stay together but it must have been so difficult for them with all the outside pressures they had and I am very glad that they had our house to come to. Barbara was always very welcome in our home.


I was really shocked to discover that Barbara had died in Hong Kong. Steve and I had separated by then and I was at the Cambridge Cemetery attending the funeral of a relative. I just happened to see Barbara's gravestone, with a beautiful ceramic picture of her on it so I had no doubt it was her. I wasn't sure if Rob would have heard about it so I wrote to him in Holland to tell him. I think Rob says I told him I saw news of her death in the local newspaper but I can't remember that. My memory seems to be very bad!


I knew that Barbara had become an actress but I had no idea what a huge following she had and still has today! It is amazing how many lives she has touched in what was a very short life.


In January 2011 Rob, his brother Fred, Yolande, Chris (also from Holland), Steve, my brother Nick and Sue all came to see me. We had not all been together for over 30 years and it was so great to see each other again. We raised a glass in honour of Barbara, because without her we would never have all got together again after so many years.


A toast to Barbara!
Di

 

di in brussel

di and dogs

(In the garden at our house at Westfield Road in Shelford with the dogs Jamie and Tanya)

 

Di的回忆

Rob你好,
那些日子对我们每个人而言都是非常特别的时光。我记忆中的Barbara甜甜的,很文静,Rob对她总是很温柔很尊重。在我们家的时候,她可能被吵嚷声和大笑声淹没了。(Steve和我在圣瑟费尔德 (Gt Shelford) Westfield路,合住的房子)

我们常常在周日邀请朋友们到家里来,做一顿英式烤肉午餐(烤鸡,烤土豆,约克郡布丁,许多蔬菜和肉汁/酱汁)。仿佛不管来多少人我们都能让大家吃饱。下午大家玩棋牌游戏,晚上我们用剩下的鸡肉加上一些奶酪夹圆面包吃。

周日Barbara不需要在炸鱼薯条店里工作,所以周日她和Rob来圣瑟费尔德(Gt Shelford)相聚。在Yolande和Chris搬来之前,Rob和Barbara有他们自己的房间,他们可以有宝贵的单独相处的时间。

我记得在我们搬到圣瑟费尔德Gt Shelford之前,Steve和我住在Guest路(离我们的大学很近)。Steve和我周五晚上开车去接Rob(那时他没有车,Barbara那个时段在打工),我们一起去一个叫Beehive中心的超市买下周的日用品。然后我们回到Rob在Bridgeacre的公寓玩牌,Steve和Rob下象棋。Steve和我用Rob的浴室淋浴,因为我们家里的浴室又冷又糟糕。

我不记得Steve和我是怎么得知Barbara尝试自杀的事,但我记得我们去医院看望她。我能记得的唯一细节是她躺在医院病床的大白床单上,看起来那么小。Rob和Barbara那时想尽办法能在一起,但是他们面临的外界压力一定也给了他们很大的困难。我很高兴他们那是可以到我们的房子来。我们也总是很欢迎她的到来。

当得知Barbara在香港离世的消息时,我非常震惊。那时我和Steve已经分手了。我到剑桥公墓去参加一个朋友亲戚的葬礼。 我碰巧看到了Barbara的墓碑,上面有一张她的很美丽的瓷像。我当时就确定是她。我不知道Rob是否听说了,因此我给已在荷兰的他写了封信告诉他。Rob说我告诉他我看到了地方报纸关于她去世的消息,但是我不记得了。我的记性看来是很差的。

我知道Barbara后来成了一位演员,我不知道她有过那么多的影迷,甚至于到现在还有。在她短暂的生命中她感动了感动着那么多的人,这真的是令人惊叹。

2011年1月,Rob, 他的哥哥Fred, Yolande, Chris (也是来自荷兰),Steve,我的哥哥Nick和Sue一起来看我。我们有30年没有见面了,能够再次重逢太好了。我们为了Barbara举杯,因为没有她的缘故,我们不会在这么多年后再次相聚。

为Barbara干杯!

(thanks to Natalie for the translation)

 

 

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